The Fight Will Soon Be Over

At four months, we first noticed Zayzay snores like a grown-up. Most people have said that it is just normal for babies to snore; they call them “noisy breathers”. And because it was the first time we see a baby snores loud, we were even amused to hear the sound coming out from his mouth.

For most babies, it is common to get sick. Colds, cough and fever are just common sickness that little angles get, as they grow older. Again, as most people say, this is normal for them. And of course, there is asthma.

At one year and four months, Zayzay had a terrible sickness. He had cough, fever and asthma. We have to rush him to the hospital in the middle of the night. He stopped breathing and the color of his skin already changed. Doctors said he had terrible asthma at that time. So he had to stay in the hospital for three days.

This stop breathing experience, the snoring, the hospital confinement, made me think that it is not normal or it is just asthma. I know doctors know very well because they are professionals and they should know. But parents should know better when it comes to the feelings with their children, how they feel when they are sick. They are always by their side.

It’s not that I don’t believe to the doctors, but given the benefit of the doubt, I researched the Internet why my son sleeps that way. And for over two years, I doubted my son has asthma, but has sleep apnea.

Every time my son gets sick and we consult the doctors, I always try to tell them that I doubted our son has sleep apnea. But most of them, the family doctor, the pediatrician, the neurologist, have told me that sleep apnea is something that could not be told easily. It will take a lot of time and money to diagnose our child with sleep apnea.

But we never stopped looking for the right professionals who would feel the way we feel about our son. Who will talk about sleep apnea with us deeply. And we are fortunate that we found them.

The pediatric and pulmonologist we met for the first time had a lot of experiences with children who had problems with their sleeps. So we talked a lot and she listened. She referred us to a surgeon whom she worked many times with patients, children with sleeping problems. These two doctors confirmed that our son is actually having obstructive sleep apnea.

Now comes the big problem with me as the father. The surgeon has recommended surgery to remove his tonsils and adenoids. These are the part of his throat that makes our son snore and stop breathing. And this operation, he said, needs a lot of money to be done.

I seek help to raise funds. I talked a lot with my friends and relatives. I talked a lot on the Internet, on social networking sites and other online communities that I joined. It took a lot of courage and humility to do it. It took me days and nights in front of the computer, trying to reach more people, more hearts, who will feel helping us with our son.

Prayers came in and so as assistance. They came from different places of the world, different races and religions. And they came in as overwhelming but isn’t enough. Even though, I thank God for the support that we have got from those people.

But what made our hearts, as parents, feel better after a lot of sacrifices for our son is the message from a television program who got interested to help us. Hopefully, with this show, our problem with our son will come to an end.

Thanks Be To God.